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April 17, 2006, 11:25 am PDT
Awesome post!
Quote From: buckleypatI may be going out on a limb here and maybe will reamed six ways to Sunday. But, I think a lot of people could benefit from watching Cesar Millan on "Dog Whisperer". I know, I KNOW that dogs are not people and people are not dogs but his understanding of psychology seems to transcend those boundaries.
Basics:
- Establish yourself as the leader with a "calm assertive" behavior rather than a nervous, aggressive energy which just may bounce of the child and feedback to you from the child as nervous aggressive energy in tumultuous moments
- Set rules, boundaries and limitations
- Exercise (in the case of children maybe activity), discipline and then affection
This guy has taken aggressive and out of control, vicious animals and totally rehabilitated them. I think his psychology has some merit in the people (parent/child) arena and it may take a while to "get it". But, for what it's worth . . . watch the show. "Dog Whisperer". You need to watch it more than once. I was not impressed with the first two or three times. I have no doubt this will work with kids. And spanking & yelling only serves to fuel nervous, aggressive, negative energy in the household.
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