Replies to 'Tired of Being Single'

It's a shame you are this angry-I was there a few days ago and I still get that way from time to time.  No, this country doesn't care about it's lonely people or anything else for that matter.  All anyone here cares about is money. We live in a shallow world, and I have just decided to do the best with it.  I have been taken from those dating things too, but I have just decided to concentrate on the things I find important-my family, my animals, and making my corner a better place.  I do think that at our age it is a lot harder, but you know what?  Having been in a miserable marriage in the past, you're really not missing anything.  It's better to be single than put up with that crap. I know very few marriages that are truly happy-and they have times where they want to kill each other.  The fairy tale marriage of being happy does not exist.  How can two genders who are so different ever get along and live together?  That is one question I still don't get.  Dr. Phil's book has a lot of good pointers in it, but for me, it's just not that important anymore.  Concentrate on the friends and maybe sometime there will be a special someone who will come into your life.  But, don't take it out on her-she is just as confused and angry as you are-that is what I have learned from this site.  Making her "suffer" could destroy something potentially beautiful

By the way, I used to live in Cali myself-what part are you from?