Quote From: subwaymomi wish i would have known these signs years ago. my daughter is and has been in and out of an abusive relationship for 6 years now. these girls think they can change these monsters i worry everytime i know shes with him. i know the signs now and what to do to get it reported to the authorities,(wish i did 3 yrs ago). my daughter has endured bites on her arms, legs, chest and back to the point that you can see teeth marks in them. he has busted her teeth out by hitting her w/beer bottles, and some of her girlfriends have told me several times that he has grabbed her by her neck and slammed her into walls w/her feet dangling, there has been times it has taken 5 to 6 other people to pull him off of her. i fear for her life. she is now over 18 and nothing i can do, he also waited til she was of age before he started this abuse. i know he did that knowing she wouldnt press charges on him. i beg other moms to watch for and know this signs before it is to late for your daughter. do what u can to get her out. i have but they still need to make thier own decision. believe me it is the hardest thing ive done trying to get her out without ruining our relationship. dont let your daughter be a victim
My daugher is in deep trouble. All of the trouble signs that you list fit her to a "T". I have had her in counseling and have warned her about his behavior. Her boyfriend is also bi-polar with an anger issue and I have tried talking to his parents and they make excuses for his behavior and have tried to redirect the issue back onto me. She will be 18 in a couple of weeks and I am not sure I can do anything. That is just the short of it.
