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April 17, 2006, 12:09 pm PDT

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Hi Susan, great to hear from you.  Doing well & glad to have taxes out of the way.

 

Re. the Easter service, I think we're all capable of both good & bad behavior, given the right or wrong circumstances, so that probably jives with us all being sinners.

 

I too see too many aggressive, spoiled, ill-mannered children & I think that stems from lack of discipline.  (And discipline does not equate with spanking.)  I think many of today's parents are waaay too lenient, parenting from guilt , wanting to be the kid's friend, & never wanting the kid to experience frustration of any kind.  It's easy short-term to take the easy way out:  giving in to every tantrum or the other easy way out (spanking) to obtain short-term order in the household or public place where the kid is having a tantrum.  It's more work in the short-term to establish time outs, loss of priviledges, etc:  non-corporal consistent punishment & rewards.  But in the long-term, the household is more orderly & the child is well-behaved out of respect, not out of fear. 

 

 

Hi Groovy!  I wish I had known how to get on these chat sites before, when parenting was new and daunting!  That's the best way to exchange advise before things escalate.  Thanks so much!

Love, Susanpear

 


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