Quote From: jettavActually I think both women and men are selfish when they willing and ready to have the pleasure of sex and then when a child comes into the picture, they decide that the child is a mistake and not worth coming into the world. What I think about men is also what I think about women, if you don't want a baby then don't have sex and take chances or go get your self to the doctor and get fixed. I think if you are gonna lie down and have sex then you should be woman and man enough to take care of the responsibilities of the outcome..yes, sex is pleasureable and should be as I believe that it was created to be great but also for a husband and wife to enjoy one another as they have become one and sex was also created to create new life, it all goes hand in hand and if people, men and women would start respecting sex for what it was meant to be, then there wouldn't be these unwanted babies and the babies would grow up to be loved, respected and given a positive chance in the world. Children should not be conceived out of greed and out of control hormones, but out of love and they should and have the right to be wanted................................
...If you are going to have sex and are "adult" enough to be engaging in sex, then you need to sit down and discuss the "what if's" before! Too often it is taken for granted and then no one is around except for the woman to deal with the consequences! And about the jackass who wrote that the men should have choices too!!! Whatever! They have a choice to keep their business in their pants and if not, then they are faced with the fact that pregnancy could occur!!! Next they will be fighting for the right to be able to dictate what the woman's choice should be....abortion, adoption without the woman having any say in the matter???? This guy and his lawyer are both jackasses!! WHAT ABOUT THE CHILD???? My husband was abandoned by his father under the age of 2 and had to live with that for his whole life (the rejection, etc.)! What is this world coming to? These people should be ashamed!!!
