Replies to '04/18 Ask Dr. Phil and Robin'

No, not everyone thinks that those on the street want to be there, but unfortunately, there are enough people on the street due to mental illness and/or some other issue (alcoholism, drug use/abuse, etc.), that I think a fair number of Americans have become hardened to the fact that there may be people on the street as a result of circumstances beyond their control.   

I don't believe Dr. Phil will see your post here, an email to the staff of the show might be the best way to get your story out if you are interested in doing that.   

I don't know where you live so it's a little hard to give you specific advice, but I would suggest contacting your local state senator(s). Those offices often have multiple staff members whose main responsibility is to help constituents who may have had issues finding affordable housing, jobs, social security, etc. I worked for a time at my senator's office during college and found that many of these people truly do have a heart for the public, and while some may not trust "politicians," it does behoove them to help their constituents if at all possible. Often, these workers are able to put you in contact with other experts in their field who may be able to help you --please consider this option.   

You might also consider contacting local churches--many churches have programs specifically designed to help you get on your feet (may be able to find an apartment for you through members of the church, or at least helping you navigate the troubles you might be having). Your note seems to hint that you are yourself a Christian--I believe that even if you are not in complete agreement with the theology of a particular church, you might find help there. If you are in an area with an active church that may be a good option, at least short-term. 

As far as social security--that is a MESS! Many do lie, and unfortunately, if you can afford a good lawyer.... you are almost guaranteed a check. Unfortunately, many who do truly need the help cannot afford the legal advice/representation when it comes to re-applying for social security once it has been denied. Again, your senators and congressmen should have caseworkers in their offices who can help you put together a good case. There may also be lawyers in your area willing to take on a pro-bono case if it is a sure win.   

Unfortunately, it does often seem that it's impossible to get ahead if you are following all the rules. I do, however, believe in the power of the Truth, and hope that you will be able to find help wherever you are.   

Please keep asking questions! Somewhere out there are good people who can and will help you!   

There are a great deal of jobs openings out there! It depends upon  what one may be willing to do. to earn an honest dollar. Most fast food locations, Mini-marts/Gas-Stations and Department stores in our area. are hiring. There seems to be a "NOW HIRING" sign on every corner  and in most store windows.. You do not need a college diploma to qualify for this type of job.  

Your friend could apply for  SSI while waiting for Disability. That is if he qualifies. for SSI..  

If your Friend is truly disabled and qualifies for  Social Security Disability or SSI. Some State will help you with education assistance..Some states pay  for College class credits (as long as you pass the class)  The state covers the cost of your books, child care and tutoring if needed..Some states pay more some sates pay less.  

I am totally disabled and am on Social Security Disability I know for certain that Social Security Disability  allow disabled person's to "earn"  $800 per month above their disability check. I have MS & several other medical problems. I get into my motorized wheelchair , ride the ramp into my my handicapped equipped van and ride off to earn a little extra money.     

 My  husband was  injured in an accident while doing volunteer work at our Church. He fell and broke his rotor cuff, broke ribs, hit his head  as well as other less severe injuries.   

The Rotator Cuff  injury required two surgeries and he now has less than only 70% use of his arm. The Carpenter's Union disabled him and advised that he apply for Social Security Disability. He was given Social Security Disability about six months after he applied.  

I think that their is more to your story than meets the eye. Tell your man to Quit feeling sorry for himself!  ! If he qualifies for Social Security, he may have to apply twice, but "IF HE IS TOTALLY DISABLED, "HE" WILL RECEIVE HIS BENEFITS!"    

Also,,Don't'  judge people who do not look disabled unless you have walked in their shoes. Social Security keeps  good Tabs on those  who receive funds. .     

 It certainly sounds like someone is jealous of disabled persons or anyone who has a penny more than they may!.. I tell you, I would much rather my husband worked 6 more years and not lost six years of person, retirement, annuity and income! Furthermore, I could have earned a great deal more working the last 15 years than being sick  and in pain!. I suggest you open your Bible and read about the root of bitterness and jealousy!  Thank God the two of you have what you have. You both have been Blessed with what you have. Believe me,things can, could and may get worse! Maybe God to trying to teach you and your friend humility or patience, what do you think?