Quote From: mikao2603Thank you Petra,
Every word you say is absolutely true. I think very good about myself in every other field, and people feel that i am very happy. But you're right: when it comes to approaching women (with other intentions than just some smalltalk) that feeling gows down the drain. I surely have to work on that.
Jo
I am 31 single mum of a son 6. I have recently started dating again after 4 year absence, this was mainly due to a very acrimonious break-up which left me very disillusioned with men in general. I have met this man who is ambitious, great cook, great sense of humour everything a girl could want really. It all started off very full on with him declaring love and proposing marriage very early on. But weirdly he hasn't mentioned it since!! Don't get me wrong I realise that he was obviously swept along in the moment and has clearly had a major re-think and I would never have held him to it in a million years but just to not mention it again is a bit disrepectful to me and has left me sort of nowhere with no idea what is going on, how he feels and where its all going. I did have a sort of "I need to know where I stand" conversation with him and he has been a bit better in the communication stakes, but we still haven't addressed any of the love/marriage thing and I don't want to labour the point for fear of alienating him.
Any thoughts anyone
CeeCee
