Quote From: lievenWhats really best for a baby ? How about TWO willing parents ? When a single woman " oopsies " a man, her action is *already* going against whats best for the child, so at that point, NO such woman has any standing to pimp out the child for money from someone who never got their own choice to say " No ".
But, the quoted person's argument is *exactly* the same argument for the banning of abortion.
Funny how flushing fetuses down drains is OK, but not paying a woman who had the ONLY choice
to bear a child is evil ? Talk about Double Standards !
" Her body, her choice... HER *responsibility* ".
If men aren't willing THEN KEEP YOUR PANTS ON!!!!!! if you don't want a baby that badly keep your lil snake in YOUR PANTS. Im judging from your comments you have a child outta wedlock and you weren't ready. well let me tell you one thing HONEY. If you kept your pants on you wouldn't have a problem. END OF DISCUSSION. EVERYONE KNOWS THE RISKS WHEN THE CRAWL INTO BED. I have a child out of wedlock and his dad wasn't ready but that is not the childs FAULT. Yes he pays child support waaaaaaaaa but I get up in the middle of the night I take care of our son when Im hurt, sick, and tired! I have a full time job IM IN THE MARINES and I run 3 miles before I go to work and its very hard for me. Yes it would have been easy to give him up for adoption but I knew "SEX = BABIES" AND IM WOMAN ENOUGH TO OWN UP TO MY RESPOSIBILITIES My life has changed completely upside down but do I whine because of it NO!!!!!! Cry me a river you have to write a check but you don't have to be a father, if you don't want to be, send a check and do nothing else. if you don't wanna do send a check, then sign over all your rights. Im SO SICK OF WOMEN BEING MADE OUT TO BE GOLDDIGGERS because we are ADULT enough to own up to our responsibilites when stuff happens and then ask for the man to do the same. MEN ACT LIKE COWARDS AND TURN THEIR BACK ON THE SAME WOMAN THAT THEY JUST GOT OUT OF BED WITH. so here is a man's choice GROW UP BE A MAN OR KEEP YOUR PANTS ON
My son's father loves his son. We get along. He knows that out of the situation I have it harder than him. We both love our son unconditionally. Our son has a happy healthy life and couldn't ask for more. It seems like it would be his best interest to have to parents that are together but you can make it work being apart too.
