Quote From: purplepainHave you told him straight out that he is being a complete jerk? Have you told him that this is an innocent child and he needs to step up or he needs to get into counciling?
Exactly how stern have you been with him? I find a lot of women who are married to jerks are very passive and let them be jerks.
You're husband is an idiot and a jerk, and sad to say woman who allow those men to have their cake and to eat it too. are too. Your husband wants the fun and games of making a baby but takes no responsibility of one when it comes into the world then cut him off , no help, no sex. After all if he does not know by now that sex can and does produce a baby then he should stop having sex . WIth privlages comes responsibility and he had the privlage as a husband to have sex and now he better start taking responsibilities for it.
My husband was just as stupid about birth control. because of church beliefs no pills or such were allowed but he refused to give up his pleasure with a condom and would withdraw for birth control and subsequently we have 4. But it was always about him and what he needed. men are jerks about sex and maybe need to be givein a shake to get it into their heads that a moment of fun is a lifetime of work and worry for a lot of mothers.
