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April 21, 2006, 7:00 am PDT
That is exactly my point
Quote From: brobbyto say that people should not have sex if they dont want children is unreasonable. that is never going to happen. however, if you dont want children, then perhaps try using one of the many forms of birth control we now have very accessable to us everyday. if this young man was so concerned, then he wouldve protected himself. NEVER take anyone elses word on something so life changing. protect yourself. i feel sorry for the child involved when she grows up knowing her father totally closed the door on her. i know that feeling, unfortunatly. no form of birth control is fool proof - accidents happen. Why do females get the only option as to how to handle the mistake - no, no one should take anyones word for something so important - i agree but women make the same mistake at times too - they just have the option of aborting an unwanted baby if it happens to them.
And as far as the baby being abandoned by her father - Her mother shares big time in that responsibility - and if she's as honest as she claims she will admit that to her daughter when the time comes. She knew he didn't want to have anything to do w/ the baby and she made her choices. I'm not saying he shouldn't be involved - I just don't see how it's fair that women have the option of not being involved and guys don't.
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