Replies to '07/06 Baby Wars'

I love this!!!  Everyone should be made to print this out and read it every day.  What is wrong with people that they feel they have no responsibility for their actions and everything bad that happens to them is everyones else's fault. Poor guy. I feel for him and his parents that they have so little substance to themselves. So many people seem to only care about themselves. Life is not always the way you would choose for it to be.  Life is RESPONSIBILITY.  How sad that this boys parents were not taught this and choose not to teach this. They are going to have so many joys they will miss out on. I waited til I was 34 to get married and start a family. I was lucky. If you are sexually active, YOU make choices. Not just one or the other--BOTH of you.  FYI to the boy-- I dated a guy who wanted me to get pregnant. I didn't want to. He decided to take my pills and flush them, hoping I would get pregnant. By the time I figured this out, it could have been too late. Thank god it wasn't. But-- If I did get pregnant, I certainly would not have made the baby pay for this. That is just plain crazy.  If you sleep with someone, you take the chance---Like it or Not!!!!!!  I am absolutely appalled that people think this behavior is okay. You made a child, both of you must decide to give it up OR if one does not want to--Take care of the baby. It did not choose you either. Be a MAN ( or woman in some cases) and take RESPONSIBILITY. Nobody gets pregnant by themselves!!!!! Thanks

  

I agree 100%. If he does the crime he should do the time. 

  

Unless a woman is braindead she won't get pregnant unless she MEANS to. She can always say " But I thought I couldn't get pregnant " or " I only missed one pill, it was an accident " blah, blah, blah...in the mean time she has sex without a condom opening herself up to god only knows how many STD's,  or unplanned babies, then all of a sudden she wants monthly checks from Mr. Man himself, who through no fault of his own has to live with WHATEVER choice SHE makes, ie. birth, abortion, adoption. 

Yes he made a mistake too by not using a condom, but that in NO WAY is a contract to allow her to decide his parental,  or financial fate.Why does she get all the choices?? That is what is not fair. 

Lot's of men are going to penetrate as many women as will allow them to. It's a part of life that no body can change and to think otherwise is a fantasy.