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April 21, 2006, 7:35 am PDT
doesn't ever deserve to be a dad
Quote From: heidimomo3I just wanted to comment on the man who is trying to get out of the responsibilities of fathering a child. I believe since he is so shallow and cold hearted that he should not have to pay child support, also his child was concieved out of wedlock. It is a cold hard world out there and usually it is us women who have to rear the children by ourselves. She needs to just grasp the concept that he is selfish and is acting like a spoiled child who needs to be given his way and cannot own up to his actions. Guess she should have thought about that before she had sex with him. Most men don't want to be responsible for a woman they are not married to any way and vic a versa. I believe for this mere fact that she should give him his way. They weren't married but still it is hard to believe that he, a working man can get out of his fatherly responsibilities so easily. If she was involved with someone else I could see him pursuing this. He knows this child is his and should take resposibilities for his actions and simply BE A MAN, BE RESPONSIBLE AND be a father to his little girl. The facts are he is a father now. It's just sad that he doesn't want to be. This young man wants the pleasure of sleeping around as do most young men, but in the event a child is created, because he doesn't want to be a dad now tuff. For years women never had equal rights. Even today when many fathers are very helpful, the majority still feel it is the mothers' responsibility to care for the children. As a result, why should he have choices, she really never has had the same choices as men when it comes to children. Several female disorders can leave women being told they can't have children and magically they do. It has always been the responsibility of women to keep from getting pregnant (i.e. birth control) or if they did get pregnant, they were the ones stuck. He has no clue what responsibility is or he would have made sure he also took precautions to prevent pregnancy and once again it was the girls fault, and since he didn't want a child she should have gotten rid of it. What a mindset for young men today. I thought the days of women being screwed (literally) were over.
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