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April 21, 2006, 10:09 am PDT
sorry
Quote From: emily_2003hey, i don't know who you are, but just hang in there. I am a single mom, and it's so hard for me to take the responsiblity all by myself- so in that part i understand how hard it is. And it's not your fault in any way, and the responsibilities of this child should be between the both of you!! He should help you out atleast with the other kids- you are pregnant and really shouldn't be doing too much you know? You got married, "until death to us part" he should be supporting you and helping you out! i have no idea why he wouldn't want to be a part of this baby's life- you don't want your kids to treat women the way he does do you? your kids will pick up everything he does and says- he should be a better role model for them. i am sorry to see that a man who is marry did not see this coming. sounds like you are doing everything already by yourself then just leave him. Because your kids are going to grow up thinking that is how a marriage is. they need a dad who is active in helping their mother out. going to work is great but it is not 1932 anymore when the women stayed home and then men went to work and when they came they did nothing. a mothers job is never over because even when the children grow up and move out they will always need advice especially when it comes to them having babies. sometimes i think men take their wives for granted. they don' t realize how hard it is to raise kids clean house laundry homework running the kids all over the place making dinner lunch and grocery shopping. half the time we are lucky if we get a shower that day. and most of the time if and when mothers have a moment to themselves it is at nap time or when the kids are at school and you have a second to eat lunch.
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