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April 21, 2006, 12:50 pm PDT
bitter
Quote From: peachiejwMy husband of 19 years has two children from his previous marriage. His son is 29 and his daughter is 22. He has said for years that he NEVER wanted that second child and that his wife "tricked him". That is such a crock and I have told him that many times, in many different ways.....if he didn't want a second child then it was UP TO HIM TO GET A VASECTOMY to make sure that there would be no more children. He said it wasn't that he didn't want more children ---he just didn't want HER to be the mother --- because she did such a terrible job with the first child. I have told him that HIS EXCUSE WAS SELF-SERVING AND RIDICULOUS!! As a result he has paid "thru the nose" for this kid and in the long run it taught him quite a lesson. I made HIM pay for HIS children all these years. I worked right along side him but whatever I made financially in our home --went to OUR home and my children. HIS KIDS ARE HIS RESPONSIBILITY and he PAID DEARLY FOR IT. Sad to say ---neither of them have anything to do with him now that the child support has stopped but I can assure you -- his mindset has drastically changed when it comes to this subject. And HE learned from FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE!!!! Beleive it or not men can be tricked by women and yes even their ex wives. Snakes come in all shapes and sizes. My husband also has 2 children from his ex-girlfriend. She is a mean a bitter old goat who insists on him paying for everything while she sits home collecting money from child support and the state. She is the classic case of playing the victim role. She does nothing to better herself and uses the children as a weapon its sick and twisted. She has the choice to sit and home and collect , she has the choice to use children as weapons , she has pretty much all the choices the law is on her side and yet my husband has no choice. NO rights and no law on his side. I feel sorry for your husband. He should be upset, being taken advantage of is wrong.
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