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April 21, 2006, 1:56 pm PDT

04/21 Baby Wars

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Oh, do I agree with you!  Men out there who are big enough to have sex, should be big enough to father a child!  If this creep thinks he's got a chance in this world and with   

God, then he needs to take full responsibility for this little girl.  Because, look out!  She will come and find him in the future and make him feel like the fool he is!    

  

I do agree with many of the posts that it is unfortunate that it has come to this.  However, I can't help but wonder why is it that you are blaming him?  This woman knew EXACTLY what she was doing.  Why would you have unprotected sex with a man that has told you numerous times that he did not want to be a father.  She made the choice to have this child all the while knowing that he did not.  So she should have to deal with HER choice and raise the child without his help.  

  

Women have fought for years for control over their bodies and reproductive right.  So it is now time to accept the responsibilities of those rights.  And if it is ultimately her choice, then it is ultimately her responsibility. 

 
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April 21, 2006, 1:59 pm PDT

04/21 Baby Wars

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Oh, do I agree with you!  Men out there who are big enough to have sex, should be big enough to father a child!  If this creep thinks he's got a chance in this world and with   

God, then he needs to take full responsibility for this little girl.  Because, look out!  She will come and find him in the future and make him feel like the fool he is!    

 Hey Matt I don't know what tree you fell out of,but you made your bed now you sleep in it.  That baby needs you and weather you like it or not she will be yours for the rest of you life.  I hope you lose in court. I am very angry at you for thinking the way you do. I'm a mother of two and my first child was not planned but you know what my husband stood up and took responsablety for his actions. We've been married now for 3 1/2 years. I'm not telling you to go and marry her but you do need to pay child support. Well I think i just about covered it. Thanks for reading.

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April 21, 2006, 2:03 pm PDT

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Quote From: lisasnider

Oh, do I agree with you!  Men out there who are big enough to have sex, should be big enough to father a child!  If this creep thinks he's got a chance in this world and with   

God, then he needs to take full responsibility for this little girl.  Because, look out!  She will come and find him in the future and make him feel like the fool he is!    

This young man should be ashamed of himself.  I think he is very selfish in his thinking.  If he did not want a baby sh should have abstained, as this is the only sure way to prevent getting pregnent.  I feel for this young woman as I went through the same thing in 1958 I know how it feels to have the father not want to have anything to do with his own child.  I hope the Judge finds in her favor as it might not do any good but at least she will know she did the right thing.  Seeing the picture of the girl and her baby you can tell she loves her little girl and will do a great job raising her.  Don't count on help from this dead beat.  Be proud of her and tell her every day how much you love her .  I did and my son is now a Major in the USAF and a great father,husband and Son.  Thank you for letting me vent.  .         
 


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