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April 21, 2006, 2:31 pm PDT

fooled father

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  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!
i soooo agree with you.
 
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April 21, 2006, 2:31 pm PDT

04/21 Baby Wars

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  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!

  

I hope you always wear a condom then!  If you 'men' never want children then please make sure you can't have them! Maybe don't have sex until you are ready!! 

 
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April 21, 2006, 2:32 pm PDT

Are you kidding me??

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  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!

He did make a decision and that was not to protect himself and to have sex before he was married.  No One other then the two of them were in the bedroom when this was supposedly discused so dont believe everything you are hearing.  If it was as easy as saying "I told her I didnt want kids" to get these losers off the hook, most men would do it.  Come on now 

If he DID not want a child he should have had surgery to make sure HE couldnt have a child, otherwise the only way to guarentee that you dont is NOT to have sex at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

 
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April 21, 2006, 2:36 pm PDT

get a clue

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  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!
I guess mistakes never happen huh...verbal contract...how about the use of a condom..or better yet DO NOT HAVE SEX IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO TAKE CARE OF A CHILD!!!!!  There are NO guarantees to not have a child..whether a woman was told she could not have kids or not...the only way to ensure you are not going to create a child is to not have sex...plain and simple!
 
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April 21, 2006, 2:38 pm PDT

04/21 Baby Wars

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  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!
I totally agree with the father after all she fooled him a relationship is supposed to be about trust I  am glad to see that a man is finally doing this. 
 
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April 21, 2006, 2:39 pm PDT

Matt splat

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  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!
 First of all genius, it is repercussions, not reprecautions...but then, the rest of your statement is just as ignorant...
 
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April 21, 2006, 2:42 pm PDT

sickened by that

Quote From: cosonov

  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!

i cannot  believe you wrote that let alone thought it. this whole subject just turns my stomach. how many women have given birth and raised children they werent ready for because a "MAN" said THEY WERE STERILE?  How many men are TRYING TO GET OUT OF PAYING CHILD SUPPORT? its so very fun to make them but none to care for them. And as for rights he has them its called signing a paper stateing he waves ALL PARENTAL RIGHTS. and viola all gone and he can go to his sick selfish ways again.  

  

If a man seriously does not want children, get fixed, use a condom. why is so much of it placed on us women, it is so much more invasive for women to take care of birth control. whats wrong with him that he cant wrap it up. women can suffer CANCER and STERALITY from birth controls. what does a man suffer? less feeling during sex. oh the poor man. GIVE ME A BREAK! 

  

alot of women cant get pregnant, or have a tough time getting pregnant, or are unsure if they can. if he doent want children then he MUST CONTROL HIS OWN REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS. IE.. condom. you hear all the time a woman has to have the control over her own body. time for men to have control over theirs. dont complain after that "oh poor me i have to pay child support over a child i dont want" get over it already and take care of your responsiabilities 

 
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April 21, 2006, 2:57 pm PDT

Another Fact

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  The fact that they had discussed the reprecautions of pregnancy, and how it was not a great time to have a child, should deter any legal action taken against the father. The woman should not be allowed to renegg on her decision to not have a baby. If anything, the father should be charging her with breach of verbal contract!  Too many woman are having 'cute little babies' just to say they have them. It's almost like an accessory in some cases. Leave the father alone. He made his position clear much before the night of conception!

   

FACT: He still had sex  

FACT: He still had unprotected sex.   

FACT: Some hot shot lawyer has talked him into filing a law suit that makes him look like a  cold hearted, self centered jerk. Get a grip- if you play, you pay.   

Grow Up Matt!!!!  

 


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