Quote From: rocky616Some people might be surprised by my feeling. I am a 63 year old grandmother.If this was my daughter i would stand by her and be as suppourtive as possible but I wouldn,t want the father of the baby to be forced to participate in my grandchilds life. This also means support. I feel the girl was as responsible as he was. I believe eventually this young man may come to regret this decision but I don,t think he should be forced.
let me just say that men RARELY are involved. my gosh in todays world men tend to have 10 babies by 8-9 different women and find NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. they dont pay support or might pay 20- 50 dollars a month. DO YOU THINK THAT WILL COVER DIAPERS? AT 20 DOLLARS A BAG.
my brother in law had nothiing to do with his children the first 5 years of their lives. he might have paid 700 in suppot that entire time. yes she is responsiable for her children. but we give men too much of an out. too little responsiability. and see how the state of families are today because of it. if the responsiability is half why should SHE pay for the whole deal. emotionally, physically, mentally. financially. if he doesnt want children get fixed. CHILDREN ARE THE MAIN REASON FOR SEX. pleasure is secondary. i am 29 and have no children. BECAUSE I AM RESPONSIABILE. AS ALL PEOPLE SHOULD BE.
