Quote From: cnicho6925I chose not to be a father, and protected myself accordingly. This woman lied about her cycle, and asked me to not use a condom, assuring me that she was in her safe period. After pregnancy, she admitted to me that she lied about her menstrual cycle in order to get pregnant . She admitted that she knew she was ovulating, even though she told me initially that she was sure she wasn't. She told me she wanted to draw me "closer to her" She has aked for my forgiveness. When I refused, she took legal action to force me to be a father. How can she deceive me into getting pregnant and still have the law on her side.
Unfortunately people lie. If you weren't married you should have used a condom. If married and you want to be sure, use a condom.
PS Condoms may also not work, Unfortunately a vasectomy or abstinence are the only sure ways.
In addition to DR Phil, you may want to watch Judge Judy or Divorce Court. Both give life lessons about how people lie.
PS I'm not cynical, I've actually been married for the last 19 years, but if you observe human nature, people often lie to get what they want.
