Replies to '07/07 The Final Ultimatum'

 you know i have read a lot of the postings.  And so many people just shoot off at the mouth.  You have no idea what Barbara has been through.  And.. is this child 'her responsibility'.   I say no.  It is his.  He needs to make provision for the child.  And it seems obvious that he isnt capable.  So be it.  Why do you judge.  There are mnay different kinds of families,.  And yes, 6 year old girls can be manipulative and really cause damage.  And fathers are not good at reading this.  Even if the step mom leaves.  he cant take the girl.  Maybe she is more stable in the friends home.  Bless there hearts for taking. her.   Do not judge Barbara.  I dont think anay of us are in a position to throw stones.  i admire her honesty.  She said she would leave.l  She is not trying to take him away from his kid.  I would love to talk to Her .  I havbe lived what she is going through and perhaps the empathy ought to be with her position as well.   We are all people and  no, children do always come first.  only in cases of abuse or potentiaol abuse.  Otherwise the spouse comes first.!!

Barbara, if you are reading this please contact me.  I would like to talk with you more.

"Sweet" is not what anyone should use to describe Ed. What he's allowed done to his daughter has no excuse. I saw this show in April and couldn't believe he wanted a wife and lover more than a daughter! He needed counseling. The daughter needed counseling (thanks to his choices) and Barbara needed to be kicked to the curb immediately. 

  

Additinally, "Sweet" men don't have affairs. They are "Selfish" men! (and vice versa).