Replies to '08/15 "You're Not Hot Enough"'

Your post is exactly why we have a divorce epidemic in our society. What ever happened to love and committment until death do us part? And why do you stereotype men so? Hopefully you are just YOUNG and naive. If it's not OK to stereotype and judge women, than it shouldn't be OK to do it to men! Geesh!!! 

  

To answer your question, she DEALS with the "lowlife" because she LOVES him, has children with him and values her marrital committment that she made before God. It has nothing to do with money. It is obvious that the two love eachother; he simply needs some help on the issue of "beauty." People (especially parents) shouldn't just take a walk away from their vows when things get tough (not unless there is abuse or another issue that is deadly). It's time for adults to grow up and start working together to make their marriages stronger.  

  

This couple WILL now get the help they need and their marriage will thrive. They will do it for them, for their children and for God.  

My ex-husband constantly put me down to other people.  When we were alone I was fine but put us in a group of people and I became his topic of conversation.  I had two children in our first two years of marriage and at 5'4 and 145lbs I was far from obese, but not to hear him tell it.  I was called Dumbo, Gargantua, and any other demeaning names he could come up with, but only when we were in public, never at home.  I finally got up the nerve to call it quits and leave him. My problem was, I had no self esteem left.  I thought I was worthless, boring, fat, and stupid.  It took me all of ten years to come to the conclusion that he was the one with the problem, not me. Now after 21 years of being alone I have finally got my just dues with him. He is now a miserably fat person with four marriages behind him.  His hair is completely gray and he has this enormus pot belly while I have never looked better.  I recently bought my first home and life is great.  People tell me all the time that I have not aged one bit.  Mom always told me "be careful with your words, they could come back to haunt you."  I am happy to say his words came back to haunt him.  Just rewards!!!!!!