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April 24, 2006, 7:50 am PDT
04/24 The Final Ultimatum
Quote From: dmiliotoAre they all a different shade of gray? I mean the stories about step-parents and step-children. I wait to see Barbara's story about her "monster" step-daughter. I anticipate it as similar to others dealing with step-families. I suspect though something will be missing from the story, something important (in my view).
A famous therapist was asked, "what are the two most important things in a successful relationship according to most professionals in the field?" Surprisingly, he didn't know that friendship and communication are. Really though I think there is only one: wisdom, as does this not include the former? Will I think after watching the show that this is what Barbara needs? I think so. We all do. And the sooner we acquire this illusive gift, the sooner we become at peace with ourselfs and others. In time Barbara will grow wise. She'll look back at the problems she had with her step-daughter as her wisdom begins cutting deeply into her thoughts leaving only the remains of . . . regret. Ambreah can't wait for Barbara to gain wisdom. She needs love and protection NOW. If not, this child will live with abuse and continue the cycle in her life. I come from a blended family and though it was not alsways smooth sailing I ALWAYS knew that I was safe and loved. My mother would have sent my step-dad to the curb if he EVER acted in a way that wasn't supportive and nurturing. He didn't always do things the way that she did but it was never vindictive.
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