Quote From: nanpaumelI am so sorry for you. You are in a very vulnerable position right now-pregnant with two other pre-school children. You probably feel trapped. But there are options. I don't know your situation with your family, but is there someone you and your children could live with till you got on your feet? Because, it seems to me, that you are the only married one in your marriage. You should explore your options without him. You wouldn't be missing much except maybe what little paycheck he brings home. And then I would tell him that you two need to go to counseling or else you will get divorced. If he won't go, find a pastor, counselor, or someone of that nature to talk to and who can help you get out of this prison of a marriage. You don't want your son to grow up to have as little respect for women and others as his father does, do you? Good luck. My prayers are with you.
Your husband seriously needs to grow up. He should have been helping you with the other two little ones from the begininng. He cant just pick and choose which kids he will acknowledge or not. I would draw a very hard line for him if I were you. Ask him if divorce and child support are better options for him that being a man.
