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April 24, 2006, 9:13 am PDT

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made. As for Barbara "hating this thing she inhierted " She will burn in the depths of HELL. If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.
I was brought to tears thinking of this little girl and what she must be going through.  I was SO relieved to read this post.  God bless your cousin and his wife who are taking care of her.  I pray that they are able and want to keep her, and that Ambreah comes to terms with the fact that she is in better hands without her dad.  I'll also be praying for her mother, and am sure she wouldn't want her little girl in the hands of that other woman (rightfully so).  If your cousin is able to keep her, I hope that they do it legally so that this ED doesn't come back in a few years needing to lean on the only one he has left (his daugther).
 
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April 24, 2006, 10:33 am PDT

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made. As for Barbara "hating this thing she inhierted " She will burn in the depths of HELL. If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.

Thank you so much for the update on Ambreah and God Bless your cousin and his wife for accepting this child into their home!  I am the mother of  7 adopted children (all CPS kids) and I am blessed each and every day by their presence!  How anyone could harm an innocent child is beyond me, but, how someone, such as Ed could sit back and listen and watch as someone else harms his own child baffles me!  I can't imagine anyone standing around and letting this abuse continue and still choosing this hateful witch over their own flesh and blood. 

  

Please thank your cousin and his wife for me and let them know that what they are doing for Ambreah now will carry with her through the years, and, when she looks back over what couldv'e been a bleak existence will be filled with the memories they gave her!  Ya'll will be in my prayers!!! 

  

As for Ed, please do the right thing and let her be adopted by people who genuinely have HER best interest at heart.  She didn't choose this...why make her live it??? 

 
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April 24, 2006, 12:33 pm PDT

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made. As for Barbara "hating this thing she inhierted " She will burn in the depths of HELL. If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.
I am comforted by your post, it seems Ambreah (what a beautiful name) is in a loving home.  Its good she is in a loving Christian home. LOve is what she needs and it seems she will have it with your cousin.

 I really hope that Ed sees the error of his ways. Ed she is your flesh on blood, you should'nt even have to think about it. 

YOu are correct in there being a Hell for Barbara,  I was appalled at seeing her sit there in tears, my God get real lady. 
 
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April 24, 2006, 12:40 pm PDT

Fight to keep that child!

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made. As for Barbara "hating this thing she inhierted " She will burn in the depths of HELL. If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.
Do not, do not, DO NOT let THAT man get his daughter back!  Take the tape of the show to child protective services or family court and fight with all your might to keep that precious baby away from Barbara.  It was very clear on the show that Edward did not want to take Dr. Phil's advice; if he got her now, she'd be put right back in the mix with that evil woman.  Don't let that happen!  My prayers are with you and that precious baby!
 
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April 24, 2006, 7:26 pm PDT

04/24 The Final Ultimatum

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made.  If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.
Thank your family for their big hearts in welcoming this special child. I hpe that they can provide her a forever family. Please if you can- keep the rest of us updated.
 
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April 24, 2006, 7:43 pm PDT

Please pass on the hugs!

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made.  If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.
Please convey to the lovely couple that are raising Ambreah that all of my prayers and thanks are with them. Every child deserves a loving home, and a child in her situation needs extra TLC. Based on the history that Ed presented (that he was cheating on his wife with Barbara) being in a CHristian home surrounded by loving adults and other children is a blessing that she needs. Having an emotionally absent, morally bankrupt father and abusive step mom is no way for any child to grow up. I will keep your cousin's family and this precious girl in my prayers. 
 
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April 25, 2006, 12:57 am PDT

Dr. Phil told dad to go get her...

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made.  If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.

I hope that what you say is true, and that if she is in a loving home, that Ambreah supporters that have personal contact with her situation contact Dr. Phil and let him know that Ambreah is better off where she is.  Of course "old school" is that the child is always better off with one biological parent, but in this situation, the father has shown such poor judgement, such as, not doing anthing to protect her from the beatings, and I bet there has been emotional and mental abuse by this unstable woman ( Barbara ).  I hope the family that has had Ambreah attains an attorney to keep her.  I wonder if someone involved could do a welfare check on the other children in the home, because I wonder if the other children are taught to hate Ambreah, or witnessed the abuse, my other concern is that Barbara will misdirect her anger with all of the pressures on her now, since her abusive secrets are now out in the open, and she will take it out on her own children. 

I also have concerns that if the dad does try to keep Ambreah, and has to leave Barbara, will he blame the child for losing Barbara?  Since the viewing public doesn't have the opportunity to know everything on first hand basis, but what was obvious, is that Barbara is extremely unstable.  Her statements that this child was out to get her, and her absolute jealousy of this child is alarming.  But the worst thing, that I feel this woman should have been arristed for is that she is a harm to children for admiting on NATIONAL TV that she is willing to murder a child.  I am frustrated that Dr. Phil just seemed to avoid the seriousness of this statement.  If a child in our school system makes a statement, serious or not, they are immediately taken to the authorities.  NO TOLERANCE.  There are NO excuses for her reasons to hate, threaten, abuse this child.  Dr. Phil should not have tolerated it.  Please give the family that is caring for her a message...get a good attorney, and fight to keep her.  The father is incompetent!  This child has been through so much, and she deserves so much more than what Edward can give her, just because he is the biological father.  I was for the dad, until I read this.  Thank you for letting us know!  We will be praying for Ambreah! 

 
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July 7, 2006, 6:30 pm PDT

Where are the mother's parents?

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made.  If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.
I can't believe that if the mother's parents are stilling living that they would let any of this go on I have 4 living grandchildren of which 3 are my step-grandchildren and I would hurt anyone that miss treated any of them. Thank You so much for letting us know that she has some love & understanding and peace.  I hope Dr. Phil follows this one really close.
 
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July 7, 2006, 11:19 pm PDT

How can we help?

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made.  If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.
I am haunted by this story.  This is my first time logging on to DrPhil.com and I came here for some peace.   I can't sleep.  I wanted so badly to hear that someone was going to hold and love this poor little girl like I know her mommy wishes she could.  It's not fair.  It terrifies me, to my core, to think that something could happen to me, and my poor baby could be threatened by the very person I'd hope would love her.  I feel helpless, is there something we can do? I think her father needs a lot of help.  He needs to see how terribly wrong he is for abandoning his child and choosing a woman without a heart.  How could he think he loves someone like her?  Please, please keep posting messages about how this poor sweet baby is doing.  I'm praying for her.
 
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July 9, 2006, 5:39 am PDT

Dr Phil Please Help Ambi!!!

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I'd like everyone to know that Ambreah is truely the winner in this situation. My cousin and his wife (who was a friend of her mother's) are currently the ones caring for this child. If Edward truely wants his wife more than this child we all know what a loser he is. Ambreah is in a loving, Christian home with 2 other children. She is brought to visit with her mother on a routine basis, but most of all she is in a loving enviroment where she can prosper and grow to be a productive adult.I pray that she doesn't see this segment of the show. She now has an extended family that loves her. She is the most gentle loving child you will ever meet. I truely believe that Edward and Barbara will pay for the decisions they have made.  If Ambreah ever sees this segment or this forum board, I just want her to know one thing: " WE LOVE YOU, and we will always be your family" Edward --  - The best thing you could do would be allow her to be adopted and walk away if you are choosing Barbara first. Barbara - - I really feel sorry for you. You must be a very insecure person if your jealousy of this child has caused you this much grief. I will pray for you each night to remove this hatred of this child, but if you truely feel you could kill her you need to stay as far away from her as possible. As for both Edward and Barbara, I hope what Dr. Phil says to you will sink in and you will resolve your issues. I beg of you to allow Ambi a normal childhood. She has already had way to much taken from her.

I am so happy to hear that she is in a loving home right now and I hope she can stay there!     

  

I think Dr Phil was wrong in telling him to go get his daughter.  It sounds wounderful in theory but he has done nothing but harm this child and will put her in harms way.      

  

If I was Ambi I would not want to be with him.  Ambi is a gift and she deserves to be treated as such.  Dr Phil PLEASE HELP AMBI!  Teach her that family does not have to be blood and she can be loved and shown good things in life and create her own family and own good life!  A "father" earns the title "father" and blood does not.  No good father would put his own child in harms way! 

  

To this person's cousin and wife.  I believe really good things are going to happen in your life as you are the hero in this story.  Dr Phil should do a show on heros like you.  A great thing has already happend you have Ambi and she has you!  

  

DR PHIL PLEASE HELP AMBI! 

 


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