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April 23, 2006, 12:28 pm PDT

Stop Making Excuses and take responsibility...!

Quote From: amominma

Actually, I was wishing Dr. Phil would have mopped the floor with this guy.  Although I agreed with everything he said...he was very easy on them...and opened the discussion for debate.  If this were a clear cut abuse type of situation I doubt there would be a debate on this message board as to the rightness of the situation.
You said, "Stop Making Excuses and take responsibility!" It would be nice that women stop too and take responsability of when we get pregnant. So are we really independent and full woman if the guy still gets us impregnated like indefense beings? Please, if the guy tells me like in this case!!, I do not want I child, you can respond and tell him, "Well, we both should be having protected sex! Do not lie and tell the guy that is impossible to get pregnant!! She was the one that told him that in first place. I know there are cases when you really did everything you could, but there are some cases when women lie. WAKE UP and stop denying women culpability . I am not defending exclusively men in this, I know the terrible things they are capable of, but we should not copy their terrible behavior. What happened? In first place they accused us at 100% in case of getting pregnant and now we are doing the same with them. Should we be fighting for a better place, where women know themselves and stop playing the innocent girls, and start playing mature. Leave the inmature behavior to teenagers and girls under 12 or 11. Stop accusing men in cases like this where she knew he did not want a child, why she was taking pills if she wasn't able to get pregnant in the first place? I know for sure a case just like this, when a friend of mine even told the guys she had cancer to get them to stop using protected sex. Of course, it was a lie. Women can fall even lower if they want. Knowing how guys can be, we are worst off if we do the same! We should know better.
 


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