There is so much in life that hurts and people who are hurt, and that pain has to become a motivation for something better. You can't lay down and die, you have to become proactive and work on a positive solution and take it one moment at a time. "Passing through it " is how it should be viewed, not going through it. And sometimes you just have to lay it down and refocus on other things to make it. You have to create a balance that uplifts your life and starts to lift up people around you. It's always hard- if it's easy, you ain't doing enough. It takes massive amounts of love, time and energy, but if you save yourself first, only then will you be able to save others.
