Quote From: jillgainesI AM 27 YEARS OLD. I MARRIED MY HUSBAND THREE YEARS AGO. ALONG WITH HIM CAME HIS TWO SONS FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE. ALONG WITH THEM CAME THERE MOTHER. IT HAS BEEN A LONG BUMPY RIDE. THEESE TWO BOYS HAVE DONE EVERYTHING FROM KILLING MY DAUGHTERS HAMSTER TO HITTING ,BITING. CUSSING SPITTING YOU NAME IT THEY HAVE DONE IT. SOMETIMES IT'S SO FRUSTRATING I JUST WANT TO LEAVE. WE TRY AND DISIPLINE AND SOMETIMES IT WORKS. IT IS HARD TO CONTROL CHILDREN WHEN THERE MOTHER IS ALWAYS LETTING THEM DO THEESE THINGS AND NOT GIVING ANY DISIPLINE. SHE THINKS INSTEAD OF DISIPLINE SHE WILL FIX THE PROBLEM BY BUYING THEM SOMETHING. THIS IS JUST CRAZY. I HOPE SOMEONE HAS SOME ADVISE. I'M GETTING REALLY TIERD.
The boys sound like they need someone to talk to and their mom needs a shrink! Their behavior is screaming notice me! Killing a hamster is a act that should have dire consquences. I know it sounds cliche' but take them to the jail and have the cops talk to them and show them what their road looks like!
My moms ex husband was the same way as their mom sounds.....he has been in and out of jail more time than I can count.