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July 27, 2005, 7:57 am PDT
Dr Phil says...
Quote From: towers2002true on that .
sorry my writing is well not that good so i try to put it as best as i can .but like i said unless your in my shoes
you first have to understand the person now i do understand what your saying ok.but seem yourall are unclear of what im talkng about . tho i would like to go in to detail more about me but not here i can in a email ok.then maybe you can tell me if im nunts or not .
life is all about choices is'nt it
Take care of yourself. You can't give away what you don't have. You seem to have alot of self pity and criticism. And yes, I know that I'm not in your shoes and can't understand what you've been through and what you're going through now. This is all true. But I do know this, if all you have is self condemnation, that is what you're "giving away" to others. Your opinion of yourself surrounds you like an aura, and others pick up on it. If you don't want pity and aversion, you need to radiate something else. I suggest picking up a copy of SELF MATTERS and giving it a try. Life is unfair, it can be cruel and demeaning if we let it. There's not a life now, or ever, that's been problem free. What distinguishes us is how we handle our problems. I apologise if you find this offensive, but I really wish you the best.
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