Well I say if he didn't want children then he should have kept it in his pants. And women do have more options than men, I will admit that. But I do not think it is flawed either. Who is the one that carries the baby to term? Who is the one that gives birth? Produces breast milk? Is expected to be the caregiver 99.9% of the time? So if women are the caregivers for most of the child's life, why can't we be the ones with the most options?
We do the feedings, the diapers, the daycare, bathing, doctor appointments, preschool, playdates, laundry, cooking, sterilizing and the list goes on....it never ends. While most men get to do whatever the heck they want to do, even if they are dad and in the home, they get to sit in front of the TV while mom runs herself ragged trying to take care of everything.
If this guy does not want to be dad, then his choice is easy. Sign off on all parental rights. And his choice, responsibility, obligation is gone! How hard is that?
