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May 1, 2006, 4:38 pm PDT
Fair is Fair
Quote From: elviraopinion of 1st couple on mondays show. i question the hope for this couple because, he was able to cry when viewing their actions on the big screen. she on the other hand couldn't mustard up a tear. i think when you can't cry, your done with a situation. and.......here's a qoute for you madam......FAIR IS A PLACE YOU GO TO RIDE RIDES! keeping that qoute in my head has helped me to cool down when i get really angry about fairness. we're in the game of LIFE and there's nothing fair about that, try to keep it together till you can be in a better place with God, then things will be fair. I believe FAIR IS FAIR. I have 2 kids from a previous marriage and so does my husband. I have always treated my step-children equal to my own children. My husband, evident to me, doesn't believe the same way I do. I love all of the kids and each of them for their individuality. My husband and I have been together for over 12 years. Our kids now range between 16 and 22. We have gotten into a lot of arguments concerning the kids. I know it's always hard to combine families together. I do strongly believe that all of the kids should be treated equally. If one kid gets yelled at for 20 minutes for leaving a "hairball" in the tub, the other one should, too. However, I don't do that. I just clean it out. What's the point in yelling? Also, I love my step-son to much to do the same as his father has done to my son in the past. I know I don't fight fair either. I have been physically abused, verbally abused and emotionally abused by my husband. I reach my blowing point of being de-graded, and the I blow up and do the same things he does. I know it's not healthy. But, Fair IS Fair!!!
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