Replies to '07/28 When Sexual Styles Don't Match'

i cant understand how a man can treat his wife like crap call her names , disresect her and then expect her to enjoy sex or want to have it.  i alkso dont see how these women can  do it either.

Anyway they get it, thats the way they like it!

And I am just as stunned by a woman who would bite the man she says she loves.  She seems to think it is cute or something even after he has told her he doesn't like it and asked her to stop.  How can THAT be ok with her?  

  

I could see role playing a prostitute and john as a hot lil sex game.  We role play lots of different fantasies for fun. It only works when it is actually fun for both of us.  I think using a fantasy game to manipulate your spouse into having sex when she doesn't want to is a mistake.  His focus should be on giving his wife time for herself so she can get become more healthy and rested.  Then he needs to look at ways to ensure they BOTH enjoy their sex life.   

  

Why in the world would he want to make her submit to anal sex if she hates it? It's just like that biter chick-that isn't love!  What is wrong with these people?? 

Purplepain,  

   

Are you serious?   

   

Marriage is rape hell for women! Men have no mercy, compassion or sensitivity. Where is a man who cares if a woman wants sex or not. Sex is expected, demanded and forced on women. I honestly don;t see hiow men can even hold their heads up or look at themselves in the mirror!  

I agree 100% , you know when your partner is interested in what's happening in the bedroom or wherever the act is being done, and if you know they are not interested and you are still having your way with your partner to me that is a lack of respect and the issues should be sorted out, not just have you thrill and leave them empty.
Paying for the pleasure, how LOW can one person get, that's prostitution to me no matter whether thats your partner or not.

SICK SICK SICK

I totally agree it is sick to have sex with a person if they are not fully consenting. Believe me I tried just letting my partner have sex with me whether I wanted to or not just to please him. He knew I wasn't a hundred percent in to it and he just couldn't enjoy it so in my opinion it is a bit wierd. Then again I am not the picture of the perfect relationship so who am I to talk. I think I might be in love with my partners penis more than him. If he asks me why I am with him that is my answer because you have the best penis. So maybe I am more screwed up than the people on the show. I think honestly we need Dr Phil in Australia the only thing is here no wife would get her husband there because the answer would be " I'm not going to see some quack like a sheila" and the more civilised men you wouldn't see for dust ( incase you don't use that saying it means they would be running). It is nice to watch Dr Phil and see that some men in the world will actually see a doctor.  

Although I think I would hate to see Dr Phil assesment of my relationship any way he would probably suggest that me and my partner move to seperate corners of the globe just to keep us from destroying each other any further.  

So what I am getting at the long way as usual is that I am not qualified to say anyone is wrong in what they do but a man shouldn't have to buy sex and a woman shouldn't have to have it if she doesn't want to. Have men ever thought the reason their partners don't want to have sex with them because them whinging for it like a baby turns them off.