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August 24, 2005, 1:52 pm PDT

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In watching the show with Susan and EJ I just wanted to scream.  Susan should get over it!  I really hate that she experienced teasing in school.  I did too.  It wasn't as severe as Susan feels her's was, but I did get teased.  I didn't hold on to that.  Most people don't hold on to that.  EJ said she was teased and moved on.  It's really sad that she's established herself on the cruel comments that were alledgely made by someone else.  Put the crutch down.  I could have shaken her through the TV when she said she didn't go to college because she was teased.  Bull crap!  It's no ones fault, but your own, if you didn't further your education or yourself.  If I were EJ I would not be your scapegoat when it comes to your education or your self esteem.  Let it go.  You may need counseling or God, but you have got to figure out what you're missing in your life that makes you harbor all this resentment towards someone else.  EJ should truly be admired for coming on TV and taking all of this because in my opinion it was a waste.  Susan should be taking care of her own personal issues not confronting EJ.  Just my opinion. 
I agree that Susan should get over it.  You can not blame your entire adult life on things like that.  The show yesterday(although it was a repeat) had teens that had HORRIBLE experiences to overcome, and yet they are going to go on and do great things.  I hate it that she was teased.  Most of us have similar stories - but thats the point.  Most of us share similar stories, and do not spend our entire adult life avoiding and blaming.  I think that Susan is a Drama Queen.
 
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August 24, 2005, 2:50 pm PDT

08/24 Reunited

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In watching the show with Susan and EJ I just wanted to scream.  Susan should get over it!  I really hate that she experienced teasing in school.  I did too.  It wasn't as severe as Susan feels her's was, but I did get teased.  I didn't hold on to that.  Most people don't hold on to that.  EJ said she was teased and moved on.  It's really sad that she's established herself on the cruel comments that were alledgely made by someone else.  Put the crutch down.  I could have shaken her through the TV when she said she didn't go to college because she was teased.  Bull crap!  It's no ones fault, but your own, if you didn't further your education or yourself.  If I were EJ I would not be your scapegoat when it comes to your education or your self esteem.  Let it go.  You may need counseling or God, but you have got to figure out what you're missing in your life that makes you harbor all this resentment towards someone else.  EJ should truly be admired for coming on TV and taking all of this because in my opinion it was a waste.  Susan should be taking care of her own personal issues not confronting EJ.  Just my opinion. 
I totaly agree. I am a recovering addict and one thing we learn is that resentments are our enemy they keep us down and using. Susan should definately get over it. I too was teased horrendously in high school. Why doesn't Dr. Phil tell Susan to get over it. Another thing we learn in revocery is that what other people think about us is none of our business. I don't believe that she didn't go to college becuase of this women. Maybe Susan needs to deal with the way she felt about herself for getting pregnant so young. Is it possible that she has blown this up into something bigger then it was? Maybe, E.J. and her friends did tease Susan, but it is possible that the way she felt about herself has caused her to believe that the teasing was more then it was.
 
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August 24, 2005, 4:27 pm PDT

if you were watching you would know

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In watching the show with Susan and EJ I just wanted to scream.  Susan should get over it!  I really hate that she experienced teasing in school.  I did too.  It wasn't as severe as Susan feels her's was, but I did get teased.  I didn't hold on to that.  Most people don't hold on to that.  EJ said she was teased and moved on.  It's really sad that she's established herself on the cruel comments that were alledgely made by someone else.  Put the crutch down.  I could have shaken her through the TV when she said she didn't go to college because she was teased.  Bull crap!  It's no ones fault, but your own, if you didn't further your education or yourself.  If I were EJ I would not be your scapegoat when it comes to your education or your self esteem.  Let it go.  You may need counseling or God, but you have got to figure out what you're missing in your life that makes you harbor all this resentment towards someone else.  EJ should truly be admired for coming on TV and taking all of this because in my opinion it was a waste.  Susan should be taking care of her own personal issues not confronting EJ.  Just my opinion. 

  If you were watching you would know that Susan Did not ask to meet EJ.  Susan did not drag EJ to the show. EJ showed up on her own, and is probably enjoying how much she is being talked about on the posts, except for posts that call her on her manipulative oratory.  

Also, miss EJ offered no real heart felt apology.  If she had, she would have been off the hot seat in under five minutes.  She could have done that and shown compassion and then Susan would see how silly she was to hold on to that for so long.  

   Since EJ tried to exonerate herself by lying on national tv about never having done that kind of thing at all it just made it ten times worse. I would be embarassed if I were her.  She's not embarassed, just inconvenienced, and tried to use it as an opportunity to appear compassionate with out taking any blame. I almost felt sorry for her when she talked about being teased, until she tried to pile everything back into susan's lap by using the word "you", meaning susan, susan, susan.  

 


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