Quote From: jeepinacj5well! she took the offer on our house and I put in an offer on a new house and they took it, I don't know why I feel like I am not good enough for my wife and why I am the one hurting so bad over what she wants, after being put through this I don't know if I will ever trust any one again. I have put my all into this marriage have been there for all her surgies and I felt so close to her and now I am so worried and scared and deprest over all this my mood keeps changing all the time, some times I cry at diffrent times and some times I have thoughts of ending thing but I keep thinking of my kids and grand kids. well I have to go. I do hope I can pull through this, and I hope she is telling me the truth about trying to fix this in 6 months to a year.
You just keep on thinking about your family. They obviously mean the world to you. Don't let her ruin your life. You sound to me like a loving and caring person. Keep that at the forefront of your thinking. At all times. If she stays or if she doesn't, things have a way of working out for the best. You WILL survive. You should know by now that there are people on this message board who care what happens to you. DON'T EVER FORGET THAT.
Take care of you. Everyone else can go stew in their own juice. (If you get my meaning)
