Replies to 'Workplace Bullies'

Quote From: raerea

I guess I can't really say that I am being bullied at work but I am having an issue that maybe I can get some input on. My husband has been working for a sales company for the past three years. There are only six employees that work there, three of which are salesman. I was offered a position there about six months ago. Recently one of the salesman has been making accusations saying that I have been favoring my husband by "stealing" leads and that he just feels like something is wrong. I confronted him on this issue and he couldn't give me an explanation. There is no way I can "steal" leads because they are automatically saved when they come through the system. I have also told him to change the password and not give it to me because I have nothing to hide. Still no response from him. He doesn't know this but on numerous different occasions I have caught him trying to delete emails(leads) from the computer that he has checked from home and other shady actions. Everyone in the office knows this except for the boss. She tries to stay blind to it all.I love my job but am very hurt by this man that has claimed to be my friend. Any suggestions on what I should do?