Quote From: purplepainWell if he is over weight does this mean he doesn't work out and eat right?
That is the hugest cause of loss of sex drive. Any Dr or therapist will tell you this is true. Think about it. Men and women both need blood flow to their genitals to become aroused. If he isn't healthy that will inhibit that blood flow greatly.
He probably won't listen to you and he probably will deny that this is true and he probably will resist trying to lose weight or at least to exercise a few times a week. Ask him to at least see a Dr about it. I am willing to bet that if he got off his hiney and exercise a few times a week and improved his diet...nothing DRASTIC, just tweeked it a bit his sex drive would improve greatly.
This is true for women too. Women think that because they aren't men, that they don't have erections (they actually do) that their health doesn't matter for their sex drive, but it does.
Being healthy effects your whole body and all your organs, including your brain and your sex organs.
Seriously...get him to a Dr so he can hear a Dr say it, because likelyhood is if you say it he'll just ignore it or pass it over.
Many people how have a diminished sex drive don't care about it. They don't realize they miss it.
I've been going through this for a little while now, my husband doesn't want sex EVER...why did he marry me anyway, he knows I have a high sex drive. It's like freakin torture and I don't want to committ adultry. The topic of sex come up again the other night and BAM now I am looking at a divorce and why, you ask, because he can't deal with his issues. It's like I can't satisfy him no matter what I do. I can't even make supper right anymore. I don't know what his problem is... I have tried to be patient with him after all he says that It's only going to work if there is no tension. So I try to be patient, loving, and gentle, I give him back rubs at night because he works so hard. I don't complain... even though I want to. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I AM DOING WRONG. Now he sleeps on the couch and i'm in the bed room. It's been that way for a while now. Can you tell we have been married for only one and a half years. I even approached the subject of going to see the Doctor, I had to do that very gently, even then he said that a divorce was imminent. It was a concern, I wasn't asking for a divorce. Well I guess that's what I got anyway.
