I had to comment on this show. I went through a similar situation with my aunt. She thought (and did) control every move and decision I made. She had completly taken away all of my self esteem leading me to believe that I couldn't make a proper decision on my own and all I could do is whatever she said. Then I met my husband who made me realize that I am worth so much more. We married and had a child. We moved 5 states away from my aunt and completly stopped talking to her. You have to get to the point where you say "no body can make me feel like this." If not for you then for your children.
Bernice can put her hobbies to good use by crocheting or sewing newborn hats for the local hospitals. Some women even donate blankets that are made & all the materials are tax detuctible. Making costumes for school plays. Gardening clubs, etc. I think that would be a good way of keeping herself busy until she is invited over to visit her grandkids & having fun at the same time.
