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May 5, 2006, 1:38 pm PDT
05/05 When Sexual Styles Don't Match
Quote From: lh2000It is possible he is not going to the DR because he is afraid the DR will tell him there is nothing he can do and that will leave him. So he keeps putting it off not to frustrate you but to keep you just a bit longer.
Unless you can assure him that what ever the DR says you love him and are commited to him then I cannot imagine he has any incentive to give you bad news.
Also the man has a medical problem that affects his sex drive and your are feeling rejected and unwanted? Would you be happy with non-sexual attention? The more presure you put on men the more they avoid it. Fear of failure can make little peter very limp if you know what I mean. You need a non sexual physical relationship and try to be happy with that. Take off the presure and you will probaby hit a happy medium faster then with ultimatatums. The problem isn't impotence....There is no problem with that...It is just getting in the mood...Initiating sex. I am happy with a nonsexual attention...but at some point what is the difference between lovers and a good friendship? I really appreciate your input on this subject. I think he is worried it is going to be one more thing he is going to have to take.(insulin and thyroid medicine)THANK YOU
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