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May 7, 2006, 7:35 pm PDT

05/10 Finding Allene and Mollie, Part 2

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Allene and Mollie love both their parents and it seems to me that both parents are playing tug of war with these precious girls.  It is my hope that Michele and Michael can find a way to each be in their girls lives and share the joys of parenting them without all this conflict.  The girls are older now and will certainly be moving towards independence in their thoughts and deeds and will choose what lifestyle they follow.  Michelle and Michael, those girls need you to act like parents.  Stop putting your precious daughters in the middle please!  Children are a precious gifts from God to both of you.  Be careful how you treat God's gift to you! 

I share the same hope. I think it is possible for both to be in their lives in a positive way. This whole thing could have been prevented if both parents would have realized that the girls need both of them. I hope Mike realizes at some point that, no matter what his convictions are, the girls need a mother. I believe both parents had good intentions but this thing just got way out of control. I’m optimistic though. Even though the girls have been through a lot, I think they will be okay. Their experience with the brethren church and the Hutterites may have given them more stability than they have ever had in their life. The values, love and support they were given will be a part of who they are for the rest of their lives.  

 


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