Quote From: purplepainHow old are you if you don't mind me asking?
That makes me sad to hear you say that you don't think you will ever be ready to leave home? Can i ask why you feel that way?
No matter the situation you aunt definately should mind her own business. This is between you and your parents.
I'm 29, 30 in September, and I want to be able to support myself and learn how to survive on my own before I even consider moving out because I don't want to end up being in a situation where I don't have enough money to survive on my own. My mother and my grandparents were the only people in my life with whom I can really count on right now.
It all costs money to move out, find a place to live, and be on my own. I'm just not comfortable with striking out on my own just yet.
In the Canadian media you hear about home invasion roberies, rapes, murders, and gun crime and that just scares me. I'm scared that something will happen to me if I do move out but mostly it's because I have this feeling of: "what if something happens to my mother or one or both of my grandparents while I'm gone?"? I don't want to think of something happening to my grandmother, grandfather, or my mother and me not being there.
I just want to make sure that when I am ready to leave home that I leave for all of the right reasons and not have it be just for the sake of my mother and grandparents. I don't really want to leave my mother and grandparents just yet because I love them so much and I know that they don't mind me living here.
I want to move out but it's just never the right time to do it.
