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Unfortunately, it will be a deal breaker for some women, but would you really want to be with a woman like that anyway? A lot of women will appreciate you getting to know them before you begin a physical relationship. Once you know that you would like to be intimate with this person, I would let her know about the past. (I'm a 27 yr old female btw) It takes a while to get to know someone sexually. (The first time my ex and I were "together," it was horrible. The whole first week was just awful, for both of us! In that relationship however, I later learned so much about myself (sexually)that I never knew. Did things I'd never even thought about! We had an amazing sex life. Had we stopped after that first horrible embarrassing week, I would have never gotten to know myself in that way. And, just so you know that first week didn't turn me off at all. I was so in love with him by the time we got to that point it didn't matter in the least. (It was a long distance thing and we fell in love over the phone after meeting in person just one breif time) Also If you want more practical advice... (here's something else I learned in that relationship) Sometime we'd go 2 months w/o seeing each other and he'd still last a good  amount of time. I finally asked him how. (all women know that if it's been a while for a man, he should finish more quickly than usual.) He told me that he would "take care of" himself just an hour or so before my plane landed. You might try doing the same thing before being with someone. Also, find other ways to pleasure her. You also have fingers and a tongue. Use them! Lastly, sometimes the best part of sex is the foreplay, the closeness, and the cuddling afterwards. most guys want to roll over and go to sleep. Don't do that! Hold her, stroke her hair, look into her eyes, run your fingers up and down her back in a massage like fashion.  You don't have to say a word, but a little pillow talk goes a long way! (please just make sure what you're saying is the truth)  

you probably don't want to hear this, but you may also mention it to you doctor. The problem could be medical rather than simply lack of experience.  

Ok. and this is the absolute last of my 2 cents... this is kinda weird for me to talk about but it might be comforting for you to hear... the guy I am currently falling head over hills for...is... I don't know if I will get in trouble for this, but ... ok, let me put it this way... I wanted to ask him to wear protection the first time, but I didn't cause I was afraid it wouldn't fit.  I honestly don't think they make condoms that small. but it didn't chang my feelings about him. Since we've become intimate, my feelings have only gotten deeper and more intense. Hope some part of this helped. Good Luck.