Quote From: trknlady66My ex-husband displayed many of the same characteristics you are describing in your fiance.....please...RUN, DON'T WALK AWAY!!! GET AS FAR AWAY FROM HIM AS YOU CAN NOW!!! You may not believe it could be as serious as a life or death situation, but it definitely is! I could tell you things you would not believe about how I ended up being abused by my ex.....but it ended up being not only me, but my daughter as well!!! He caught me trying to leave a couple of different times and once put a knife to her throat and told me he would cut off her head...I believed him! Another time, he put a gun to my head. He even decided that he didn't want our 2nd child (who was conceived when he raped me when I came home after the c-section birth of our daughter) and poured boiling water over my stomach when I was 8 months pregnant! I was beaten if I took too long at the grocery store, talked to anyone he didn't approve of, or if he just felt like it. He started out a "wonderful guy" and moved us 1300 miles from my family....then the true evil came out. Please, don't let this continue to escalate into a very tragic situation!!!! Get out now, while you and your daughter are still alive and safe!! He needs help and your relationship WILL NOT GET BETTER!!!!!! I wish I could come and take you away from there myself!!!! Please, let Dr. Phil help you get away! Don't become another domestic violence statistic.
Chris Eytcheson
I understand the men and women are sick who do the stalking and abusing. There is also another point of view. I've been in fear and abusive rape situations with my ex partner. However, I was just as sick as he was for staying while we went through years of him doing these things. I had to take responsibility that I had zero self-esteem.
Really, who lets a man pour boiling water on their pregnant stomach in hopes of killing the kid and stays. With compassion I say this. FEAR does rule the hurt and weak. However, admit how sick you were too for staying.
Jo-Anne
