My personal opinon is one self esteem comes from her loveing partner. (provided she had one in the firstplace) Being one that has gone thru a marrage that distroyed my self esteem, I can say that if she had been more up lifting and suportive I wouldnt be looking for some one like my self (happy and full of llive and love to share. Suport from the partner will do wonders for a marrage and the more he gives to her self eteem the better the marrage gets.
I say this because my parents have been married for 45yrs now and I still see that newlywood wedding blitz in ther atattude. There is no low self esteem that I can see in thier marrage. A example I hope to make happen finding my soulmate...
She is out there I just have to open the right door!
Hvae a GREAT day
Terry