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May 14, 2006, 5:59 am PDT

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Quote From: helenhg

My only comment on this situation is that if you act like a doormat people are going to wipe their feet on you.  This man is not going to give up his doormat easily I don't think, and his wife has trained him to think he can do whatever he likes.  If Dr Phil cannot come up with some kind of help for these two people it will end in divorce as she will eventually have had too much of him.
 What happens so often is that while you are working so hard and your spouse helps out also(besides working too).  We want him to feel that he is appreciated.  So we tell him how wonderful he is and how lucky we are to have him.  Then, while we are building his ego, he begins to think that he is better and above our intellect.  So he branches out and everyone thinks that he is such a great guy.   But, we don't tell what kind of person he has become to you. 
     What a jerk he has become.  Putting you down in front of others.  Flurting with others.  And suddenly you feel empty inside.  
 


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