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May 16, 2006, 11:06 am PDT

You are wrong!

Quote From: rj6482

I agree it's not that he is wrong or she is right. If they discussed the roles that each would have in their marriage then there wouldn't be a problem. I know plenty of marriages like this where the man does the outside chores and the woman the inside. Here we have another woman who has been influenced by feminist. Did you see them all trying to empower ( indoctrinate is more like it ) her at  the retreat? I could just imagine what these feminist were saying off the air. Were gonna fix you so, you won't need him anymore. You don't need him. He is a pig. Your the boss, not him. The problem here is she does these duties around the house not because of her love and devotion to him. But, out of fear of his tounge. The tounge lashing she will get from him if she doesn't do it. So, both are wrong. Another feminist in disguise that wants it both ways. We will see how happy she is as a single mother all by herself out there. Not only will she have to clean house and cook for herself. She will have to maintain the repairs on the house, mow the lawn. Keep the vehicle maintenanced. And a whole host of other things that she took for granted that her husband did without a second thought. Car mechanics will take advantage of her ignorance. So will home repairmen. I think the husband should be nice to her and that she should do her house work willingly and out of love. And then if she does not do this. Then he will know that this was just a ploy to get him to do more housework. And to take her place as Queen like the Black woman who demeened him and the drill seargent white woman with lungs like bellows yelling at him. They humiliated him and they enjoyed it. We need to get back to our God ordained roles in the family and quit messing around with these experiments. 

I am the woman who yelled at Greg and I would never speak to my husband like that in a million years because my husband treats me with respect and love, so I would do anything for him.  We only did  to Greg what he does to his wife on a regular basis so that he could feel her pain!  He said to me a couple of times, "Yeah I guess I could do that a little different".  A good husband does not make his wife so scared of him that she retreats to the bathroom to throw up every day.  Greg is not doing his job as a husband.  This guy has issues and he needed to feel her pain even if it were for just a day or two.  I am not a feminist by any means, but I do think that all humans should be treated with respect.  I would do the same thing if this were a man being treated this way by his wife.  So for you to take the stance that  this didn't help, is dead wrong!  I saw lights go off in this man's head every time he was treated the way he treats his wife.  Now it is up to him to decide if he wants to keep treating her like an animal or save his marriage.  He was given a wake- up call and that's all we could do.  I'm am very proud of the experiment and would do it again in a heartbeat. Yes,  God is good and there ARE roles in families, but God didn't say that the man should take out the garbage and the woman should make the bed.  He looked at roles as ways to treat and respect one another.  One of those roles is to love and honor your family!!!!!    Think about that one and maybe read your Bible a little more closely. 

  

Rebecca 

  

  

 


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