Replies to '09/05 The Divorce Experiment'

Exactly. Too many people have romantic, fluffy, corny, airheaded notions of love and dating and marriage.

Ask the hard questions now! It's easier then waiting until you DO have that noose (that was good...LOL)

BTW, your icon is adorable!

  I never saw a single sign that my husband would be controlling or hurtful. There was never any sign of a bad temper, control or abuse of any kind. He was such a sweet man. As soon as we were married it all changed. I have stuck it out because he is not all bad PLUS when I got married....years ago, women just stayed home and did as they were expected to do. Most men mellow with age. I know the men with whom we have been friends, as well as my husband have changed for the better as they grew older. Not easy but.......