Message Boards

Replies to '09/05 The Divorce Experiment'

 

Message Emote
blank
May 16, 2006, 9:18 pm PDT

05/16 The Divorce Experiment

Quote From: corkie

So it's 5:00 and they have both went to work at 6:00.  Now do they both get to clock out at 5:00 or what ever time the day ends for work? Who takes care of the kids because mom and dad are clocked out.  Be Real!!!  Now it's time for them both to take care of the kids and each other.  Now it's time to be a husband and father, wife and mother or did every one forget that part?  The day is not over just because the office ids closed!
Sorry, in an effort to be not as harsh my sarcasm failed.

I was being sarcastic. I am trying to understand Fluffy and Donna's points of view.
 
User Mood
Happy

Message Emote
angry
May 16, 2006, 9:43 pm PDT

do her job?

Quote From: corkie

So it's 5:00 and they have both went to work at 6:00.  Now do they both get to clock out at 5:00 or what ever time the day ends for work? Who takes care of the kids because mom and dad are clocked out.  Be Real!!!  Now it's time for them both to take care of the kids and each other.  Now it's time to be a husband and father, wife and mother or did every one forget that part?  The day is not over just because the office ids closed!
If I was treated by a superior as Greg treats his wife, I would sue the company! No one, and I mean no one, has the right to abuse anyone like Greg does. Just because Greg works outside the home doesn't mean he is free of all responsibilities of the home. He still has to share the to do list! A relationship is respect and caring. If you love someone you are not abusive and mean to them. Greg is not in love with his wife, he justs needs a victim to get his anger out. If she left, he'd be crushed and scared, he couldn't stand to be alone, he doesn't like himself enough to be alone with himself. He'd be desperate to get her back and he'd be nice for a few weeks. Then, the circle of abuse would start again. The man is incapable of loving anyone but himself. She should leave him. She'd hurt for a while, but believe me, she'd be better off. She'd have all her children back under her roof, where they belong. The first commitment is to keep your children safe and yourself, so you can protect those children.
 


Return to the Message Board


First Page | Previous Page | 1 | Next Page | Last Page