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May 19, 2006, 1:58 am PDT
Ready for Marriage?
Quote From: ashley91I want to move in with my boyfriend too, but the more I think deep down, the more I realize that I'd rather marry him. I want the committment or else I won't feel safe. I haven't told him this yet, but I have to be honest with him. He's thought about marriage too, but I don't want him to settle with living together only. Sometimes it works, though. My cousin lived with her boyfriend for 2 years, & now they're engaged. Please talk to your boyfriend, seriously. I have talked to him about this issue but he becomes very defensive as soon as I bring it up. He tells me that he has already answered all of my questions and that he is sick and tired of discussing it. He really is a wonderful person don't get me wrong but this is the one and only issue that we have. I don't like porn and he sees nothing wrong with it. He did say that he will not look at it anymore and that he hasn't looked at it in a while so I am taking one day at a time. I will continue to snoop just to make sure that he isn't using our computer to look at such content. I have not found anything on our computer ever so he has been honest there. I did bring up our sex life again tonight and as usual he didn't want to talk about it. He said that he doesn't think about it and that it doesn't bother him that we have sex so little. I didn't have much time to discuss this with him as I had to go to work tonight but my goal for tomorrow is to discuss this again with him and not to take no for answer. He has to realize that this is important to me and if he doesn't want to take me seriously then things have got to end. Thanks for your imput!
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