Quote From: brakthcyclYou are responsible for your own actions.......you are. My mother had 7 children, I can relate so much with what these children go through. I used to PRAY for someone to find out and save us all. Well when people found out they looked the other way. She acts now like because no one ever held her accountable, these things didn't really happen. I hope you are held accountable for every single day, every single time you abused those children.
I am one of eight children. I am all grown up now. But I can totally relate to these children and you. People only pretend to care. They don't want to get involved. My mother knew what was going on but she didn't do anything. She knew about the beating, verbal abuse and the sexual abuse, and did nothing. I finally found the only man in this whole world that I can trust so I married him. My daddy molested me and my mom's now boyfriend of 20+ years verbally and physically abused me and my brother & sister. He doesn't beat the rest of the kids b/c they are his. I don't think I could ever trust another man. I thank God that my Mother didn't beat me too like the one on this show. Those kids can't do anything about it. They're damned if they do and damned if they don't. It is too late now to stop the 2 oldest kids from resenting their mother for the rest of their lives. They will move on but they won't forget.
Humiliation is one of the worst forms of child abuse. Beating your child is bad enough, but that one last kick in the ass on the way out the door is what does it. That is no different than what my mom's boyfriend did to my brother: Mom's boyfriend brought home a little dog that he thought was cute. He made it my brother's job to clean up after the dog if it pooped in the house. If my brother did not find and clean up the poop before "boyfriend" found it, "boyfriend" would shove my brother to his hands & knees and shove his (my brother's) nose in it. Literally.
None of these people have ever been held accountable. I wish someone would have seen and done something. Thanks for speaking out and opening the door for me to follow suit. I feel a little better now.
If this mother does not stop right now her children will feel the way I do. My mother's boyfriend has been there for most of my life and now I hate him with a passion that I cannot even describe. I hate him even more than my daddy who sexually molested me. At least that only happened once. The other abuse went on and on and I think it still goes on now in my mind. I kind of wish he would hurry up and die from the many health issues he has so that we can all be set free because he is still here and still flapping his jaws.
