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May 18, 2006, 9:25 pm PDT

Alex isn't doing fine

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I only got to see part of the show today, but from what I saw, she's doing fine.  In fact, for someone who got pregnant at 15, she's doing great.  It looks like she'll go to college, get a degree, get the job of her dreams and save her money and buy a house.  

   

Now don't get me wrong, I'm happy for her, but for someone who didn't do it "right" she's getting along pretty well.    

   

Now take someone like me - I graduated high school with pretty good grades, but I didn't get to go to college (I couldn't afford it - back then they didn't hand out scholarships to just about everyone like they do today).  I've worked since I was 13.  I got married and 7 years later at the age of 28 got pregnant for the first time in my life.  Then after 20 years of marriage (with financial problems the entire time), I got divorced, and now at the age of 44 (45 in one month!), I am struggling on my own trying to raise a 16 year old daughter - who has managed to get this far without being sexually active and getting pregnant - I guess I'm doing something right.   

   

I would love to own my own home one day, but I don't see that happening.  How do people afford houses today?  I don't understand it.  And how does someone like me, living paycheck to paycheck, do it?  I'm sure the girl "who did it all wrong" will own a house before I do.  

Alex's mom is a hard driven real estate agent. Dad and the kids are along for the ride. If Alex gets her own house - mom  (or Dr. Phil) will have bought it for her. Anything Alex gets she will piss away. How may young men have passed through? Were she to live on her own would this be good for the  kid she is semi interested in raising? 

  

 
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May 23, 2006, 10:37 am PDT

wow

Quote From: abigfanabc

I only got to see part of the show today, but from what I saw, she's doing fine.  In fact, for someone who got pregnant at 15, she's doing great.  It looks like she'll go to college, get a degree, get the job of her dreams and save her money and buy a house.  

   

Now don't get me wrong, I'm happy for her, but for someone who didn't do it "right" she's getting along pretty well.    

   

Now take someone like me - I graduated high school with pretty good grades, but I didn't get to go to college (I couldn't afford it - back then they didn't hand out scholarships to just about everyone like they do today).  I've worked since I was 13.  I got married and 7 years later at the age of 28 got pregnant for the first time in my life.  Then after 20 years of marriage (with financial problems the entire time), I got divorced, and now at the age of 44 (45 in one month!), I am struggling on my own trying to raise a 16 year old daughter - who has managed to get this far without being sexually active and getting pregnant - I guess I'm doing something right.   

   

I would love to own my own home one day, but I don't see that happening.  How do people afford houses today?  I don't understand it.  And how does someone like me, living paycheck to paycheck, do it?  I'm sure the girl "who did it all wrong" will own a house before I do.  

Anyone can own there own home It is calledf hard work I agree it seems like Alex is getting alot handed to her and not outright working for it . I had my first child at 17 my husband and I worked hard and bought a home when I was 21 we had to live cheaply to save for it and him work 2 jobs nme one  so we could save it can be done . good luck and keep your chin up
 


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