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May 21, 2006, 9:37 pm PDT
Don't let him get away with it.
Quote From: traceyac8I have talked to him about this issue but he becomes very defensive as soon as I bring it up. He tells me that he has already answered all of my questions and that he is sick and tired of discussing it. He really is a wonderful person don't get me wrong but this is the one and only issue that we have. I don't like porn and he sees nothing wrong with it. He did say that he will not look at it anymore and that he hasn't looked at it in a while so I am taking one day at a time. I will continue to snoop just to make sure that he isn't using our computer to look at such content. I have not found anything on our computer ever so he has been honest there. I did bring up our sex life again tonight and as usual he didn't want to talk about it. He said that he doesn't think about it and that it doesn't bother him that we have sex so little. I didn't have much time to discuss this with him as I had to go to work tonight but my goal for tomorrow is to discuss this again with him and not to take no for answer. He has to realize that this is important to me and if he doesn't want to take me seriously then things have got to end. Thanks for your imput! I'm really proud of you for sticking to your guns and continuing to talk to him. My guy ALWAYS has time to talk to me, even if I were to bring up the same thing more than once. THAT has never happened to me before and THAT taught me that I deserve such treatment. He is great that way and you deserve the same. When you love someone and you see how bothered they are by something, that is what you do...you listen and try to do what you can to better the situation. If he's defensive, there's already a problem. And if you break up, believe me, you will find a man like mine, who listens and is willing to do what it takes. I broke up with my ex husband and look what I found! You are EXACTLY right when you say if he doesn't take you seriously, things have to end.
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