Quote From: Pleasancefinancially feasible or not...get him out of there...you are living in a very dangerous environment with a dangerous man.
You need to call the police, it should have happened when he pulled the knife, the police should have been called. What were you thinking?
Are you in denial that he will and can hurt you badly. You could end up dead.
I also hear from your post that you have been experiencing other forms of abuse, too.
One of which is financial abuse.
Does it occur to you that all this abuse and control is what he chooses in order to make your life hell.
I don't give a damn what his resume looks like......WHAT I CARE ABOUT IS THAT YOU ARE LIVING IN PHYSICAL ABUSE AND DANGER.
WHETHER HE APOLOGIZES OR NOT, I DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT HIS APOLOGY....HE DID IT, AND HE WANTED TO DO IT....HE THREATENED YOU WITH A WEAPON....AND ITS AMAZING THAT YOU WERE NOT HORRIBLY HURT.
What kind of example are your children witnessing and living with?
You need to reach out and get the resources in your community to help you explore the way through this violence and abuse.
What is your life worth?
Whether you have financial debt or not...you have got to seek help.
Starting with the POLICE.
How much in denial do you think you are?
I care.
GET out now or kick his ass! 1. your a person and 2. he is not for you. I married my ex 7-years-ago when I was 18. He got abused and I used my Police training to make he think twice about, and tooked the kids and left! You need to do the same thing. LEAVE HIM NOW!